A story of a friend taught me the true selfishness of one person and how it can ruin so many other ppl’s lives. Just because one person doesnt want to drive to see his gf, he makes his friend drive him, and never offer to pay him for gas. Although his friend wanted to stay to hangout more, and he could have visited them a couple hours earlier to spend some time with them, he wasn’t able to because he was being a great friend. The guy confessed that if his friend didnt want to drive, he wouldn’t even go to see his gf. After he lied to her about how much he supposedly care about her and everything. He has no idea what changes are. He has no concept of how to treat his gf. Any guy with a brain would know what not to say, but he said it, justifying himself with excuses such as she compared him with a guy he doesn’t like. After she drops the subject, he still went on to say the most ridiculous thing to her, making her cry and everything in public, once again, after he promised to never do that again. His lies once after once hurt the girl. The guy not only wasted the time and energy of the girl after fucking her up, he also used her as a way for him to get the things he wanted. In their two weeks before their breakup, she not only bought him nice stuff so he wouldn’t feel too left out, but also sacrificed her time with her family to be with him. The girl and the guy are no longer together, but a lot of people agree that it is his selfishness that drove her away and he will never be able to realize the damages he has caused. Not only to his ex gf, but also his friends. 

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